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   The purpose of the rehearsal dinner is to allow both families to meet one another, some for the very first time.

• Usually hosted by the groom's parents

• The bride and groom's parents, step-parents, grandparents, brothers, sisters, close friends, officiants, readers, out-of-town guests, the entire wedding entourage and their spouses/live-in-relationships/fiances should be in attendance.

• The rehearsal dinner immediately follows the rehearsal of the ceremony, usually the night before the wedding

• The party can be as formal or informal as you wish

• The party can be hosted at someone's residence or at a restaurant

• The bride and groom usually offer a toast to their family and friends for their love and support. If you need help with a toast, please look at our Toast/Vows/Poems section.

• Gifts for the wedding attendants are usually handed out at this time

• The toasts will take place during the dinner. Between courses is a perfect spot for the toasts.
  
  The toasts at the rehearsal dinner are given by the host of the event (groom's father) first. Next would be the bride's father, and then ushers, bridesmaids, etc. Not everybody must toast, but this is a perfect time to get the more personal stories and feelings out to the couple in a more intimate atmosphere. The bride & groom may also toast at the end of the others. This is to thank everybody for support, etc. during the engagement.